Long Distance Friendship

I have never imagined that I'll find a real friend online. Yeah, this sounded a bit creepy for some but its actually not-- its so much fun! It's much fun than having a real life friends. Well let me explain how our wonderful friendship begun.

I've been using tumblr for almost a year now and my tumblr account is not like the usual, what I mean by this is its where I show how much I fan girl towards a celebrity or a show where no one tell me to calm down, and its like living in a different life, away from reality, work, stress, pain and hatred and so on.

At around the month of March of this year I got a new follower, a gleek like me. I really got curious with her like I had the itchiness of talking to her. Then I followed her back and do the usual thing I do when I gain a follower-- go to their ask box and thank them. 

When I went to her blog, I couldnt find her ask box and I was like: "how can I thank her, how can I befriend her?" *sigh*. I waited for couple of days or maybe weeks hoping she'll change her theme. But nothing happens, so then I decided to post something on my own tumblr saying: "@imquinnfabray am I the only one who can't find your ask box or you really don't have one? please reply to this post if you see this." An hour after posting that, nothing happened.

Then came March 31st, I intentionally went to her blog again. Hoping and wishing she changes her theme, a theme with an askbox and alas! there it goes, there goes her ask box. And I'm not gonna lie I was really happy like a kid when I saw it like giddy happy! 

At first, I was kinda hesitant to send her a message thinking what if she ignores and doesnt answer my message? But whatever-- I still did, I still sent her a message. I waited for a couple of minutes for her to answer then she did!

And it was like almost everyday we talk to each other and its really fun. In fact, I can no longer stand a day without talking to her, it's like she's part of my daily routine and I really get moody whenever we dont talk'

I honestly never did imagined we'd be this close-best friends online, where in fact I dont normally stick to someone from internet-- especially now, now with our situation she's from Florida and I'm from Philippines. But I did, I did sticked to it. And there's nothing to regret about this friendship.

Months have past (3months to be exact) and we still have our friendship, and I could say its getting stronger each day. And to be honest, I'm way happier with the friendship we have rather than my real life friends, I mean I can be open to her I can tell her things I can't tell my friends.

I can fan girl with her and I can be pervert to her without thinking of how she will react because we're the same. In other words, I can show her my other crazy side without limitations, no need to pretend or whatsoever, we can be as uhhsome and uhhmazing the way we wanted to be and let people be jealous of us!

She's a total blessing to me, a person who give's me total happiness a real friend more than those friends I have in real life, we consider each other as "wifeys" and she makes my life a little less tiring just by talking to her, and I love how we simply understand each other but there's only one thing I dont like, we live in different countries.

Yes I have to admit there are alot of times the I hope she's right here next to me or she lives right across the 

street but no we're ten-thousand miles apart, there are times that we just wanted to hug each other but we can't because of this stupid distance, how I wish I can move Philippines to Florida or vice verse. 

But, I'm not gonna lose hope because I know in the right time and in the right place God will allow us to meet, God is in our friendship and I think anything is possible-- and I would love to look forward someday of meeting her, and I think I should also save money so I can visit her country or whatever. I really wish it would happen.

It's funny though that sometimes, I imagine how it's gonna be when we met, would we ever talk to each other right away without having the feeling of being shy and unease, would we ever joke to each other the way we fool around in our conversations on MSN? I really do hope so. ;)

This is a friendship I would forever treasure. A friendship I will take with me on my grave.

So, Alice-- you'd always be my "wifey", little sister.-- I love you. ♥